By Isa Riano, Advertisement Manager
With technology being on the rise, especially during the pandemic, dating apps have become popular. They allow for people to look through different profiles, get suggestions for who is a good match for them, and communicate with those that pique their interest.
There are different opinions about these apps. Some believe they are a blessing, as they are a great opportunity for those who have been in their shell for a long time to take the bold move and set a date up. However, others believe they can impose negative consequences due to the risks they possess. Follow along to learn more about the good, bad, and ugly of dating apps.
Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, and OkCupid are just a few examples of dating apps. These platforms allow people to create a profile where they can upload pictures and personal information such as their occupation, hobbies, and likes.
Although all dating apps provide single people with an opportunity to look for others who are also looking forward to being in a relationship, each app has its own unique feature, so it is important for those interested in using them to do research on how each app works. Some websites, such as Versus, provide users with a description of each app.
Some believe dating apps are a positive side effect of globalization.
“With the rise of technology, dating in the real world is harder,” said Natalee Stelee, a senior majoring in criminal justice. “Dating apps seem like a natural progression to me.”
When using dating apps, some people think they help them overcome their shyness.
“I have used dating apps and overall have had positive experiences with them,” said Stelee. “My social skills were poor, but dating apps helped me get myself out there.”
Although dating apps do not always lead to serious romantic relationships, they can help people understand what they are looking for in a partner.
“Dating apps helped me understand myself, what I was looking for, and possible red flags,” continued Stelee.
Despite their benefits, dating apps also have some setbacks. A concern most people have with these apps is that it is easy to hide behind a screen. People can create a fake profile to take advantage of someone or portray themselves as caring even if they do not have the best morals.
“It is easy to hide what you do not want people to see online,” said Cora Charron, a freshman majoring in psychology. “Too many people only have the intention of taking advantage of others, especially on apps like Tinder and Hinge.”
Another concern with dating apps is cheating. Even if these platforms are supposed to be for people who are looking for a partner, some may be on the app when they have a boyfriend or girlfriend and agreed to be in a close relationship with them.
“I wish people could just be honest about what their intentions are,” expressed Charron.
Some people make the decision to never use dating apps, as they prefer to talk to a potential romantic partner in person before making any commitments.
“I don’t believe in dating apps. I think finding people the old-fashioned way is a better alternative,” said Charron.
It is challenging to answer the question of whether dating apps are a blessing or a curse. However, it is clear that they have pros and cons, depending on the person. Although they help those who want to get started in the dating world while adapting to our virtual shift, it is crucial for those interested in using them to be aware of their risks.
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This was a very interesting article! Although I am not a fan of dating apps, I enjoyed learning the pros of using them. We are definitely in a digital era.